So now what?
Are you going to sit and cry for the rest of your life??
Or do you intend to do something?
Was that ending your fault or are you not the one to blame?
Is there something you can do to fix it?
Is there something you should stop and think about..
so you can act in a better way the next time 'round?
Is mending a broken heart even possible?
Of course it is!
With this relationship advice..
getting over a break up is possible.
There are many things you can do to heal a broken heart!
And the best thing is:
It all depends on you!
Here's how to forget someone in 8 steps.
#1.0 Cry out everything you have to cry about!
When we get hurt, it's normal (and good) to cry.
Don't ever think you're being weak for crying and
don't feel embarrassed because of it! It's normal and it's good!
When you cry,
you let go of part of your anger
and hurt so you can feel less heavy.
#2.0 Get busy!
When you're trying to get someone out of your head..
you need to put other things inside of it.
In other words...get busy!
It doesn't matter how,
you just need to get distracted.
Go to a movie, watch a play, travel.
#3.0 Spend some time with your friends.
Friends are always great to have in this kind of situation!
Friends can make you feel good about yourself
and get you distracted very easily.
They will certainly make you laugh and make you see
that you're way more important than you think!
#4.0 Avoid the person!
Try not to go to places you know you can meet that person.
When you're trying to forget someone
and you two keep seeing each other,
it gets hard to get over it
#5.0 Go out and see some different faces!
Being at home gives you more time
to think about it, which makes the process
even more difficult!
So even if you're not feeling excited
or you're in a bad mood,
just put on your best clothes,
best shoes, best smile, call some friends and go somewhere nice
where you can
dance, drink, listen to some music.
And the most important: See some different faces! When you go out,
you notice that the person you're trying to forget
is not the only one
who's got a perfect smile and an amazing voice..
.thank God~
there are other interesting
people around the world, too!
#6.0 Avoid every kind of romantic thing!
If you're trying to forget someone,
you'd better not watch romantic movies
or listen to romantic songs...
it makes you feel bad
and you will certainly remember
the person you're trying to get rid of
#7.0 Take good care of yourself.
Women tend to run for some kind of self-destruction
when they're hurt.
If we break up our perfect relationship,
then we have no reason to get our nails done
anymore and the only thing that gives us comfort
is chocolate and sugar.
That way, the only thing we do is to become
less attractive and lessen our self-confidence.
So if you're hurt, just try to use your pain for yourself
instead of against you. Go to the gym, work out a lot,
get your nails and hair done...do whatever you can so you can
feel more pretty and confident!
#8.0 Accept the process!
You can be really strong and it's still going to hurt.
The process takes time and you have to accept that!
You can't hope to forget in 2 days
someone you loved for 2 years...and you can't pretend to be strong
if you feel like crying.
Just face your pain and accept that
it's not easy and it's going to take some time.
When you're patient with yourself and your situation,
things tend to get easier...
Well, of course, forgetting someone is not easy to do
nor is it easily explained in just 8 steps.
But there are some things that make the process a lot smoother.
As I said, it takes time and it's hard but I'm sure you can do it!
The only thing that is really, really important is:
It all depends on you! Don' ever forget that!
If you want to forget someone, then you will,
there is no doubt!
Even if it takes a long time, even if you have to be really strong...you will be!
In that kind of situation
we usually find out that we are a lot stronger
than we give ourselves credit for!
So believe that. Believe that,
take a deep breath and move on!
Your life's waiting for you, baby!
^^
muchos graciass for reading fellows.
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LOVE
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grace
